A word about manners

The magic community is a very fickle creature and for someone fresh to the scene (as well as seasoned vets) it can be very difficult to maneuver and to understand the hows and whys of socializing with other magicians. So here's a quick run-down of the basics.

1. Listen
   
   When you approach a magician or group of magicians, be it in a lecture, convention, or just a casual dinner setting, listen to what the others have to say. Always remember that every person has something to teach you, and other magicians always have a story that you can pick something up from. So listen.
   
   
2. Don't be afraid...
   
   ...to talk, to ask questions, to show them an effect. Remember that these guys are just people, so if they start talking about something you don't understand, ask. the worst that can happen is they reference you to some reading material. Got an effect you're working on and want some feedback? Show it to them. They won't tear you apart and they will most likely have some good suggestions.
   
   
3. Don't ask how it's done
   
   Unless you are in a Q/A situation don't ask how it's done. If they show you an effect that absolutely floors you and you really want to know how it's done, say something like "Wow that was incredible" or "I'd love to see how that works sometime" but don't put them on the spot. Simply let it be known that you appreciated the effect and would like to know how it's done, but don't be pushy about it. Remember, most magicians love sharing their passion with others.
   
   
4. Have fun
   
   Remember that you're all passionate about magic, and most people you meet will be more than happy to talk with you. Other magicians are a great source of feedback, knowledge, and above all friendship. So get out there, have fun, and don't step on anybody's toes.